We must be willing to get rid of 
the life we've planned, 
so as to have the life that is waiting for us.
The old skin has to be shed
before the new one can come.

If you can see your path laid out 
in front of you step by step, 
you know it's not your path. 
Your own path you make with every step you take. 
That's why it's your path.

~Joseph Campbell